The Wonder of Forgiveness as a Road to Health

April 28, 2010

So many have written and talked about the power of forgiveness. What about the wonder of forgiveness?

In many spiritual teachings, we are shown how our thoughts and subconscious beliefs and feelings attract to us what we need to learn and grow as spiritual beings. This most certainly includes the many health crises people face. I remember many years ago reading Louise Hay’s book “You Can Heal Your Life”. I was in the midst of a chronic health issue and I was searching for anything that might help. As I read the book, I remember becoming very incensed because it felt to me like the author was telling me that it was my fault that I was sick. I threw the book in the trash – literally.

With time and teaching and new understandings, I do believe that I attracted my health issue. But, I also know there is no guilt or finger-pointing or fault needed or indicated. It just is. When you don’t realize the impact of your thoughts and beliefs, how can you be held accountable? But, what happens when you do find out? It is our natural tendency to internalize negative action/reaction equations as guilt and fault. That’s not seeing the broadest picture. But, again, often it just is. So what do you do?

You forgive yourself. As you acknowledge that you did the best you could with what you had and what you knew at the time, you relax. The pathway to forgiveness begins to take focus. As you acknowledge that you deserve to be healthy, you begin to take that path. And as you walk down the path, you begin to understand how to truly forgive others. You realize that, though you may not condone the action, you can forgive the person because they were doing the best they could with what they had at the time and what they knew.

Many unkind actions are fear based. Greed is fear based. Control is fear based. When you really take each one down to the lowest denominator, it’s typically fear. So the person is reacting out of fear to protect themselves in some way. Who doesn’t understand that? Do we choose to handle it in the same way? No. But, when you understand this basic concept, you open the pathway to forgiveness. And what does that do? It opens your heart. It reveals to you the capacity for love that you already own. It shows you where you are afraid and where healing can be done. And what does that do? It changes your energy so that you no longer attract situations and people into your life to present those areas to you up front and personal with trauma and drama and dis-ease. You gently and gracefully uncover those areas of past hurt and pain and heal those places.

There are many ways to do this. The best I have found is by using ThetaHealing™. If you are open to change and the wonder of forgiveness and what positive benefits it can bring to your life, allow me the pleasure of offering you some insights through the technique of ThetaHealing™ to get you pointed in the right direction. This is energetic healing and is not bound by time and space limitations. All you have to do to receive, is to say “yes” after you read the list and allow the flow of energy to bring new understanding to you.

  • Would you like to know that forgiveness is a source of wonder in the best sense of the word?
  • Would you like to know that it is possible to truly and completely forgive another?
  • Would you like to know how to?
  • Would you like to know the possibilities of allowing forgiveness in your life?
  • Would you like to know how to forgive yourself?
  • Would you like to know what that feels like in every way?
  • Would you like to know that you deserve to forgive yourself?
  • Would you like to know the benefits to you of forgiving others?
  • Would you like to know the Divine truth on judgment and retribution?
  • Would you like to know the highest truth on forgiveness of self and others?
  • Would you like to know how forgiveness impacts your health?
  • Would you like Divine truth on love, what it is and what it isn’t?
  • Would you like to know that you deserve unconditional love?
  • Would you like to know that it is safe to love others?
  • Would you like to know that you can have this in your life right now?

As these new insights begin to work in your life, watch and see how you react to others.  If you like what you are feeling and the direction your life is taking, consider checking out ThetaHealing™.  This is just a tiny taste of what it is and what it can do.  You can change your thoughts and change your life with grace and ease and without trauma and drama.  As Louise Hay said a long time ago, “You can heal your life.”

Lotus Blossoming

Blessings of love and peace and wonder deep within your heart,

Theta Healing Connect

How to Choose an Alternative Healer and Healing Technique

April 25, 2010
There are many many types of healing. Acupuncture, energy healing, flower essences, prayer, shamanism, crystal healing, and the list goes on… What is today termed alternative healing in the West has been practiced in other parts of the world for centuries. As mass consciousness has changed to be more accepting of healing (as compared to Western medicine), individuals have adjusted techniques to fit their own styles and assigned the techniques new names. Hence, there are a lot of techniques that are similar, but not quite the same. How confusing! Lavender

How do you choose what type of healing to try? Ask yourself these questions and others that come to your mind as you read them:

  • What kind of person are you?
  • Do you like to work with a group of people, or do you prefer to work by yourself or with one other person?
  • Do you need a ritual?  Lighting candles, performing things in a sequence, etc.
  • Do you like hands-on type healing?
  • Do you want to do the healing technique yourself or do you want someone to do it for you?
  • Will you want to have the process explained in detail during a session?  Or, will you be able to judge based on the effectiveness?
  • Do you need someone to legitimize a technique for you?  For example, does the government have to list it as an approved type of alternative healing technique for you to feel comfortable with it.  Or, does Oprah have to endorse it?
  • Do you like more spiritually oriented techniques? Or, do you prefer a technique that can be explained scientifically in minute detail?
  • Do you want someone to “give it to you straight up” or do you want it surrounded by flowers and butterflies?
  • Do you prefer to work with a male or female healer?
  • Are you religious, spiritual, or neither?  Could you work with someone who is different from you?
  • Are you a risk taker? Or, do you follow the crowd?
  • Are you willing to explore techniques on the edge of societal norms or will the technique need to be more traditional?
  • Do you feel the need to keep the practice hidden from friends, family, and co-workers?  Or, are you someone who says “That’s their issue.”?

These and like questions will determine the type of technique that might work best with your personality. If you don’t feel comfortable with the technique, it won’t matter what healer you choose.  You won’t like the result.  Take your analysis of your style and comfort level and compare that with what you know about a technique.  It will be up to you to use your best judgment as to whether or not the fit will be good with your personality and whether it will fit with your life and lifestyle.

Angel Statue There are many paths to health, happiness, and prosperity. ThetaHealing™, my favorite, is one of those paths. Since we are all different – we come from different environments, lifestyles, beliefs, and experiences – we may prefer one type of path over another. Or, we may decide that none fit us perfectly and start to put together a unique path that combines component parts of many paths. Educating yourself about the various ways to achieve wholeness and wellness and prosperity is the best way to determine what works best for you.

OK.  That’s done.  Now on to how to choose the healer.

We make evaluations about people every day, multiple times. We take in information about their appearance, their voice, their demeanor, and other things.  And whether we realize it or not, we also take in information about their energy field. All this information goes to the brain where it is compared to our beliefs and subconscious programming. The brain then, as part of it’s instinctive job to protect us, decides whether flight, fight, or acceptance is the appropriate response. If acceptance is the choice made, the brain then also determines the degree of acceptance.

What does all that mean? It means that you subconsciously evaluate people all the time.  That evaluation is then measured to what your conscious evaluation tells you.  It shows itself in how you feel about them when you don’t even know them.  It means that when you are choosing a healer – any healer – you want to feel comfortable with them and your feelings will help guide you.

Choose healers like you would any other professional. What do you feel when you see their picture or hear their voice or read their website? Do you tense up or do you feel relaxed and comfortable? Do you like their personality? What type of training do they have? How much experience do they have? Have others recommended them? When you talk to them, are they well spoken and do they seem confident about the healing work and how they can help you?  You need to be able to trust the healer you choose. You need to feel confident that they know what they are doing and can help you make the changes you desire to make.  You also want to feel that you are getting a good value for your time and money.

Just as there are many paths and techniques, there are many healers ready to help you. Since you may be considering using an alternative healer, it is prudent to do your homework and listen to your gut feelings.  Be aware of your body as you choose and you may find that your intuition is functioning much better than you ever imagined.

My personal hope is that you will try ThetaHealing™.   Find out more about it on Theta Healing Connect.  You may find that your search will be over.  ThetaHealing™ will be all you need to accomplish all you can dream.

Sending all who read this, light and love and discernment to help you make wise choices,

Theta Healing Connect

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