The Imbalance of Male/Female Energy

February 28, 2013

Over many lifetimes, cultural and religious and various systems have shifted to favor the power of one sex over another as we continue our quest for learning and understanding, and our experience of duality.  As we have lived our lives, we have experienced these changes on both sides of the coin – as men and as women.  In most of our 3D reality now, the weight is in favor of the male energy.  It is now time to come together and change all that yet again to align with equality and wholeness and Oneness – to shift out of duality and into what I call “unity consciousness”. To do that, it may be good to release some conscious and subconscious beliefs.

Do you have any of these beliefs?

  • I hate women.
  • Women are a pain.
  • Women are only good for one thing.
  • Women need to know their place.
  • Women are subservient to men.
  • Women are weak.
  • Women are second class citizens.
  • Women are boring.
  • Women are a necessary evil.
  • Women are useless.
  • Women are not good at business.
  • Women are not good at math.
  • Women are not good at independent thinking.
  • Women are not good at creative endeavors.
  • Women are better in the kitchen.
  • Women are better in the home.
  • Women should stay in the home and care for the family.
  • A women’s job is her family.
  • Women are expected to stay at home.
  • Women are expected to listen to and obey men.
  • Women are expected to follow the rules.

These are only a very few potential beliefs that you may hold about women, whether you are male or female.  Different cultures and different belief systems have defined women and the role of women differently over time.  You may have subconscious beliefs from many cultures and many times.  You may carry the beliefs and values of your family. You may be very attached to some of these beliefs.  They may serve you in a number of ways.

But, if we are to change the attitude toward all women worldwide to one of respect and value and worth, looking at beliefs is a place to start. Change begins with the first step.  And, it’s not just beliefs about women.  There are beliefs about men that tie into beliefs about women. It’s all tied in together.

There are also the feelings of men who have changed their own thinking about women yet still hold anger, resentment, regret, grudges, hate, and other negative feelings related to those who still treat women indifferently at best.  And then there are the similar feelings of women as to their own plight and what they see happening to other women and what they foresee for their daughters in this world here and now.  Add to that the feelings of injustice, inequality, unfairness, disbelief, betrayal, etc.  How many women carry the energy of being a victim?  How many men have difficulty forgiving themselves for past behavior?

This is a huge topic and one that is important for both men and women.  The first step is to look at yourself and your own beliefs and feelings.  Change your own beliefs and feelings and you change your vibration.  Change your vibration and you have the potential to change the vibration of others “just” by your presence.  And, you set an example for others – you show them another way.

What will be your choice right now?

Would you like Creator’s truth: on men; on women; on duality; on equality; on wholeness as a person; on wholeness as a society; on wholeness as the human race; on wholeness of all life everywhere; on Oneness; on unity consciousness; what they all are and what they are not; changing your truth to Creator’s; teaching you how to have, know, believe, act from, and embrace Creator’s truth and what all that feels like in every way; that it’s safe to live Creator’s truth; that you are ready, willing, able, worthy, and deserving to now; for all times, versions and locations of you and your twin if you have one; all for your highest and best; with grace and ease; without trauma, drama, and/or illness and/or dis-ease of any type?

Even though the beliefs above are just a few of those that you might want to change, would you like to change the ones listed to________?

  • Women are smart.
  • Women are beautiful.
  • Women can do anything.
  • Women offer a wonderful perspective to things.
  • Women are sparks of God.
  • Women are an equal part of the whole.
  • Women deserve respect.
  • Women deserve to be valued.
  • Women have the right to a life of self-empowerment.
  • Women are powerful.
  • Women have choices.
  • Women have rights.
  • Women have much to offer.
  • Women know how to contribute equally.

Would you like for Creator to pull and victim energy that you may carry and replace it with the energy of self-worth and self-empowerment and the energy of unconditional love? Would you like for Creator to show you how each of these beliefs served you?

If so, say “yes – equals” and allow the Divine energy that runs through all life to show you and teach you; clear, heal, resolve, dissolve, and/or transform all that no longer serves your highest and best related to the above; teaching your subconscious, your conscious mind, your ego, your body and all your cells, how to live in this changed energy and how to work together for your highest and best as you shift and change into alignment with Creator’s highest and best truth.  For so it is and so it shall be for all who are ready to step into their highest and best pathway to Oneness.

Happy Group of PeopleThere may be much more for you to see about yourself and for you to think about changing related to this.  This is a good opening to more. This life is a beautiful journey.  There is no longer room or time for prejudice, hatred, unbalanced power, submission of one by another, and victimizing others.  There is no longer room or time for unforgiveness, whether towards others or towards yourself.   Coming together by choice is the best option for a multitude of reasons.  Let’s just do it!

Thank you for opening your heart to Creator’s truth and for being willing to change lifetimes of ingrained beliefs and the resulting feelings.  You are changing the world moment-to-moment.  Thank you.  You rock!

Heart to heart, soul to soul in love and joy and peace…

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Soul Healing Theta Style

February 23, 2013

Every ThetaHealer® has undoubtedly experienced a moment of wonder and awe during a healing.  It just goes with working with the Creator – a job benefit if you will.  Today was yet another one for me – and I was even beyond wonder and awe.

In the Advanced ThetaHealing book, founder and author Vianna Stibal describes a  “soul healing”.  I have found that they show up unsolicited for clients on a semi-regular basis.  The visual that Vianna describes is typically pretty consistent to what I see with clients and with myself.

milkywayToday, I had a soul healing show up unsolicited for me.  I had been working on a deep issue and had begun to make some significant headway.  I was in a relaxed Theta state and the soul healing just spontaneously began.  It started out in a typical fashion.  For you non-ThetaHealers®, the visual I see typically presents as if you were looking at the Milky Way galaxy from afar.  It spirals clockwise, then spirals counter-clockwise, and finally spirals clockwise again.  So, my healing began as the beautiful spiral I have come to recognize.  As it began to spiral counter-clockwise, waves of beautiful vibrant red energy were released.  Waves and waves and waves and I could feel the release of energy and the healing that was happening.  But, the unusual thing was that I found myself recognizing myself as the spiral by BECOMING it.  The “I” (the mind/ego) was the observer but the “I AM” was the experience.  I watched and felt at the same time from two seemingly distinct vantage points and perspectives.  My “I” presence was in such wonder and awe and joy and amazement while the “I AM” presence was within such a field of love and joy to have that level of conscious awareness from the “I” presence.  The observer watched as the soul experienced and felt and knew and saw itself as a beautiful exquisite field of energy.  The “I” presence kept shifting the view to be able to see and know movement as the view from “within” is seemingly without movement (kind of like when you are drifting in a hot air balloon and you can see the terrain move but you feel no movement at all and it is perfectly quiet).  As the view shifted, the strands of Milky Way like energy formed into layers and layers of peacock feathers that circled around the soul core.  Since I have a peacock and find him amazingly beautiful, this intuitively and instantly represented layers and levels of exquisite beauty – the beauty of my soul – and the “I” was filled with such gratitude for the soul and the beauty of it in all its majesty.  The soul, in turn, was unconditional love personified and embraced the “I” presence with all of Creator’s Oneness.  It was profound beyond words.

As the healing was finished, my issue was no more.  And, I knew that the mind/ego could easily instantaneously re-visit that perspective of soul love and gratitude (running both ways and infusing everything) at any time, from any place, totally and completely.  What an incredible gift of Spirit!  What an incredible understanding of the nature of my own soul and that I know and feel and accept that it/I am beautiful beyond measure and the gratitude that brings in and of itself.  Wow.  Just wow.

I hope my words convey even the tiniest bit of understanding of the incredible healing that happened and how it felt and looked.  It defies description – but I had to try – to give those of you in sadness and despair hope.  To remind you that you are so very loved, so very appreciated, and so very very beautiful – no matter who and what you THINK you are or have done.  It IS anyway.  It just is.  And, my dear friends, how awesome and mind-blowing is that??!!

Enjoy the day, enjoy the evening, enjoy it all.  Because, dear one, you are beloved and oh so beautiful right now in this moment, and forever more.

From my heart to your heart, from my soul to your soul…

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