We all make mistakes, right? That’s what we’ve been told since we were kids. But, with that understanding comes the feeling of “wrong” or “bad” or “not right”. We are used to people judging us by our mistakes and then evaluating our relative worth, both personally and professionally. That then continues the downward spiral to an understanding that what you do is who you are and who you are is not good enough, not worthy because of your mistakes. That then continues to you BEing a mistake and not being wanted or worthy of Creator’s love and notice. Yikes.
What is a mistake really? Well, I have come to know mistakes as another way of experience in any given situation. We manifest situations that teach us and give us opportunities to experience life in a variety of ways. Until we remember that we are actually manifesting, we do this subconsciously by our thoughts, feelings, and actions and the vibrations they hold. We then choose how to react to those manifestations based on where we are and what we understand physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually for every situation. So, if you believe as I do, there really are no “mistakes”. There are just choices and opportunities and we make and embrace them as best we can in any given moment.
The good news is that we are remembering that we are co-creators. We are remembering that we are powerful and we have choice in what and how we create. We are remembering that we can always choose love in any situation and it will all work out and, even better, that the more we embrace love and the solutions it brings, the better the outcome will be for all.
And, when you view “mistakes” as another way of experiencing, then you don’t judge yourself when you choose a path of more resistance, of more pain. You know you did the best you could in the moment and you learn from it and you don’t allow it to define you. You also don’t let the judgments and opinions of others to define you either. You understand that they, too, are doing the best they can with where they are in their reaction to your choices. It’s an entirely different way of looking at life.
Now, we also need to understand that everything is energy. When you make choices that hurt yourself and/or others that energy becomes unbalanced. The natural flow of energy is within overall balance. That doesn’t mean you will have a scarlet letter of karmic restitution attached to you. Karma is merely a rebalancing of energy and it can be accomplished in a variety of ways. It doesn’t have to mean you will experience exactly what you caused for someone else. Not at all. And, then there is the offering of “grace” which is a topic for another day. The thing to know here is that your life will flow in harmony when there is balance. As long as you continue to judge yourself and as long as you continue to think of yourself as unworthy, you will not be living in the flow of harmony and balance.
So check these beliefs about mistakes:
Mistakes are bad.
Mistakes define me.
Mistakes consume me.
Mistakes guide my life.
I am always trying to make up for my mistakes.
My mistakes make me unworthy.
I am a mistake.
Since I am a mistake, I am unworthy.
Creator thinks I am a mistake.
I am unworthy of Creator’s love.
Creator wants me. (no)
If you had any of these, you might want the following download.
Would you like to have Creator’s truth on mistakes; on karma; on your worthiness; on judgment; on you as a co-creator; what each really is from the highest truth vs. what you think each is; changing your truth to Creator’s; teaching you how to have, know, believe, act from, and BE that truth; what that feels like in every way; that it is safe for you to have these truths; that you are ready, willing, able, worthy and deserving to have them now and it is possible for you to now; for all times and versions of you; all for your highest and best and with grace and ease?
If so, say “yes – truth” and allow Creator (the Light of all life combined) to brighten your inner Light with the highest truths, filling all your cells and all the space in-between with Creator’s Light and love and understanding and truth, and giving you peace and hope and courage and joy and unconditional love through all levels and layers and times of you. For so it is if you allow it to be.
From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo
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