During holiday times when we get together with family and friends to celebrate and enjoy, there can be an underlying current of discontent related to belonging.
We have come to understand that we “belong” to our family. We base all our interpretations of belonging on how we feel/felt about the bonds and structure and interplay within that familial family. For some, those feelings were not about inclusion and security and encouragement and love, as we would have it expressed. So, every time we get together with our familial family, those undercurrents (typically repressed from childhood) are “activated” and brought forward into conscious awareness. That’s where family discord can be enhanced and where it can be challenging to stay in a space of peace and non-judgment.
We, as humans, crave to belong. Many will use any behaviors to secure their place and belong – even to their detriment. However, a more expanded truth is that it is not possible to not belong. Since we are a part of and WE ARE the Divine, we can never really be separate and we always belong and we are always loved unconditionally. But, it doesn’t always feel that way in 3D here and now does it?
Sometimes we don’t feel safe belonging. We feel there will be, at the very least, an implied obligation/responsibility for that sense of belonging and we feel we have no control over what will be expected. But, that desire to belong is strong and sometimes overrides good common sense. We may also feel like we are forever tied to our familial families and there is no escape. We are obligated. We are captive. There is no escape without intense pressure and judgement and hard feelings. Whew. And, there are so many opportunities to “belong” (per our 3D view). The family of man, the family of church/religion/like believers/, the family of origin, the family of friends we choose… the list goes on and on. With each comes the underlying beliefs related to obligation i.e. your dues to belong. That’s a lot of pressure!
Would you like Creator’s most expanded truth on belonging; that you ALWAYS belong; that belonging is ultimately related to you accepting the highest expression of you and that that type of belonging far surpasses any sense of being a part of life here and now that you could imagine; that you feel and know that as your truth now and here; that it is safe to belong; that you have proper discernment on where to belong, how to belong, how invested to be in belonging, when to belong, and that you have a clear understanding of what you are willing to give to belong, from your heart and not your head; that you are worthy and deserving of belonging in the best and most supportive and embracing way; that you understand how to “belong” as part of and AS the Divine Energy of Creation while also “belonging” in the here and now in the most expanded and best and most supported way for you, simultaneously; that it is possible for you now; with clear conscious awareness and understanding of all this now; how to live your daily life knowing and believing and acting from and BEing it all; with love and grace and peacefulness and balance and harmony and compassion and immersed in Divine truth; for all times, versions, aspects and all layers and levels of the expressions of you? And would you like to know how to belong and feel like you belong even when the 3D doesn’t appear to show that you do (i.e. how to enjoy all get-togethers feeling like you belong and knowing that you belong, even if it is not as the “group” would understand belonging)?
If so, say “yes- belonging” and allow the Divine energy to embrace you, enfold you, infuse you with these truths and understandings and beautiful sparkling love and joy.
You belong. You are worthy and deserving of belonging no matter how you feel about things you have done or not done. You are always and forever a part of and YOU ARE the Divine. It just is. Know that about yourself and believe it. Allow it in as your truth. For so it is…we are all One.
Merry Christmas and Happiest of Holidays! Enjoy knowing you belong!
From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda
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