Parameters vs. Boundaries

May 4, 2017

If you’re reading this, you are aware of etheric boundaries. Many spiritual traditions talk about them and how to set them up so that you don’t take on the energy of others and energy that is harmful to you. You know… the outward facing mirrors or surrounding yourself with a bubble that is impenetrable.


I was shown a good while back that there was another way to handle all that and it was time for me to shift out of the technique I was using. The way shown to me was to really turn up my inner Light and shine it out. I was shown that energy not of that vibration would either go another direction, not notice my energy, would try to attach but would not be able to, or it would just pass through with no negative impact to me.

It was really scary to think of doing that! In fact, it was so scary that I decided to “test” it multiple ways before going “full monty”. I tried at home first. When people would come over, I’d switch methods. I finally got the courage to go to the grocery store “just” shining my Light. It was a bit dicey at first but Source kept encouraging me and I finally became comfortable with it.

It is a way to define what you want without any separation or duality. No “me vs. them” or “this accepted but not that” kind of energy. However, if you are like most people, you wonder if you can sustain the level of vibration of that 24/7 especially with all the things that come your way in a day. That’s legitimate. I will say, though, that as you hold a higher vibration more and more and more, you attract less and less and less of any vibration other than the higher vibrations.

All that said, there may be a time of adjustment from one method to another. It doesn’t always work at first. So, I have an interim step for you. It’s about parameters.

We tend to think of boundaries like a wall. We put the wall up and say “you can’t come in unless I say so”. It is like a physical expression of keeping you separate from something else. That’s the energy of how we typically think of it.

But, what about parameters. With parameters, you are saying “this is how I choose to experience”. The energy of that is positive and not negative. You’re not saying some energy cannot come into your experience. You’re saying “I am choosing to experience in this way. Period.” Splitting hairs? Maybe or maybe not. The energy is certainly different and since we are vibrational BEings, energy matters. Like attracts like. Positive energy attracts positive energy. So, if we think of choosing to experience positive energy – period – we are in effect telling the Universe to not bother us with any negative energy, but in not so many words and certainly not with that energy. It’s a win win. (Remember how your Mom would tell you one thing, but you and everyone else in the world knew she meant something else? It was just her way of nicely telling you to do what she wanted. It’s kind of like that.)

I do believe that shining your Light from within so brightly that negative energy is a non-issue for you is the way to go for a lot of reasons – not all discussed here. But, if you desire an interim step from bubbles and mirrors, perhaps establishing your parameters (the positive conditions you choose for your experiences) is the next step.

Try it out. There is nothing wrong or unseemly about wanting to ease into new things. If someone else thinks so, that’s on them. If you think so, change your beliefs about that first. Then use parameters until you feel comfortable taking an even bigger step. It’s about you and no one else. Whatever works that is based in love. Enjoy a lovely gift from Spirit!

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda

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A Doggone Funny Tale

March 20, 2014

Subtitle:  Who Let The Dogs In – Theta Style

I had scheduled two separate sessions for two furry family members of the same household.  One is an older dog and one is a newcomer to the family.  I love doing pet sessions because the energy is so delightful.


About mid-afternoon, the older dog – who I will call Max – and I met energetically.  We did what we needed to do related to his physical needs and at the end of the session, I disconnected from his energy.  About two hours later, I began the session with the puppy – who I will call Bo – to address his past trauma as a rescue pup.

Bo and I had a spectacular session.  He was so grateful to have been rescued and he was SO very happy.  I would call the energy of the session “bouncy joyful” – so much joy he could hardly contain himself.  One thing I noted was that I received several messages about Max during the session and how Max was feeling about the new puppy.  I didn’t think much of it other than messages from Creator to relay to my client.  Bo and I finished our time, though I could have stayed with him much longer!  Our energies disconnected at the end of our time together.

Everything was good but I noticed my dog acting like she characteristically does when we have “visitors”.  She has a “set” of behaviors that she exhibits and it is crystal clear.  I didn’t think much about that either because the energy felt just fine, but since my dog was concerned, I asked what was going on.  It was especially interesting given how my “invitation” to “visitors” is set (a topic for another time).

Evidently, Max had decided to “piggyback” energetically when Bo and I had our session.  That’s why I was receiving all the messages about how he felt about Bo!  It’s one of those things that when you look back at it you go “Of course!”.  And, since Max had incredible energy as did Bo, the energy didn’t feel disruptive.  In fact, part of what I was guided to do was to clear anything between the two and to harmonize and balance their energies.  Of course!  When I realized what was happening, I disconnected from Max (his energy had stayed when I disconnected from Bo) and lovingly sent him home.

I’ve had piggybacking occur before related to beliefs from other timelines and beliefs of ancestors coming in as timelines merged – coming in undetected on that energy.  I became aware of it when I began having basic beliefs that we clear early on in Theta popping up.  Of course I noticed then!  Yet, I was confident that the beliefs had been successfully cleared and resolved earlier and that had been done at the most deep level.  So, what do you do?  You “Ask Creator!”!!!  And, hence, the mystery solved.

So, what now?  I asked if it was in my highest and best to keep this type of piggybacking from happening again.  For me it was – and so it is.  It might be worthwhile to ask this same question for yourself and then go with what you get.  (Also, remember that this can happen with people too – especially children of parents you are working with.) The other blessing (other than knowing about it) is that I am set to release and clear the trauma of three older rescue cats who were lovingly adopted into one family (bless them!).  I am seeing how doing one session for all three will have benefits that I don’t even know about yet.  Is this right for them?  Yes I get from Creator so “Woohoo!” this is going to be interesting!  We are shifting and remembering our power so quickly now that anything is possible and lots of fun is in store!  Are you with me?

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Namaste ya’ll… Linda

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