The Energy of Fight

October 16, 2017

I love to see how generous and compassionate people are. People want to help. People want others to be happy and safe and have what they need. So, when things happen that threaten that perception, people want to jump in and help.

That assistance comes in many forms and that is great. One of the forms is to decide what you want to have happen and send energy to “make it happen”. It might be like deciding that you don’t want a hurricane to go a certain path so you want to “push” it away. The intention may be good but there are some considerations.


First, how do you know what is best? Don’t you want the best for all? How do you know what that is? If you “push” a storm to another path, what about those in the new path?

Second, with your intention comes the energy of “force”. If you are seeking a peaceful resolution, is force the energy that best suits your desire?

I have experienced cancer twice. I learned so very much with those occurrences. One of the most impactful was that I was better served to not “fight” cancer. Cancer is there to alert you to imbalance. Instead of fighting cancer, I learned to put all my energy into “making myself whole” again. I let go of the resistance. I let go of the need to fight. I let go. And, I looked within to see where I was no longer whole and I put all my focus there. I am here today. I am whole.

I would offer that instead of engaging the energy of fight and resistance if you are helping situations energetically, use the energy of bringing the energy of the situation back to wholeness.

There are a couple of lovely ways to do this. One is to consciously decide what energies might be useful. (I offer this one because some readers will “need” something more “concrete” to focus on than the second way I will be discussing.) You will want each energy to be positive in nature such as: the energy of resolution, the energy of courage, the energy of strength, the energy of perseverance, etc. Write them down if it will help you clarify and hold these vibrations. Intend for these energies to go to the situation/people in the best way for all (including nature, animals, elements) while honoring the choices of all. In other words, send the energy but without force, without pushing. Have you ever felt the energy of someone “pushing” energy to you? It doesn’t feel good even if the intention is the best. It’s the same feel for situations. When you have your choices identified, focus on the situation and allow the energy to form within you and merge with the energy of the situation. Know that any choice to not accept is being honored. Don’t visualize how the situation will resolve. Just send the energy with the intention that it is all knowing and all powerful and that it will go and do as is needed in the best way for all.

Another way is a variation of the above. Instead of identifying “types” of energy to send, know in your heart that this Divine Energy of Creation is intelligent and all knowing. Allow the knowing and feeling of this to grow in your heart until it expands out from you immersed within and as unconditional love. See that love merge with the energy of the situation. No parameters. No expectations other than the expectation that the love is Divine and all encompassing and will support what is necessary for the best of all in the most peaceful and loving way. Enjoy the process for it is so very enjoyable. Just allow. Know you are accomplishing so much as you add your conscious intention to support whatever is best for all to return to wholeness. This method takes a bit more trust and faith and understanding and clarity. If it doesn’t feel comfortable to you – yet – no worries. It will come and it will come quickly the more you release the “need to fight” something, to push it away, to resist it.

We have come to believe that when there is something we don’t like, if we don’t resist, we concur that it is allowed. I offer that there is another way to view things. I offer that in allowing yourself the space to connect more fully with your own Divinity (the energy of all life combined) and then focusing that energy on what you don’t like, you are shifting the vibration of the situation in a positive way. The more the vibration raises, the more the negative aspects fall away and disappear without effort. Just know that if you offer energy with the background chatter of making it disappear, or the energy of energetically saying “Take that!”, you will be unsuccessful and may even exacerbate things in the short term. Release the resolution to the Divine Energy of Creation for the best of all and just allow it to do what it will. That energy is nothing but love and nothing but love can come from it. Allow it to serve your needs consciously. The more you can trust in it to “have your back”, the more “having your back” will not even enter your awareness. It will just be you and the Creator – the Divine Energy of Creation – creating your dance of life moment-to-moment.

So… there are a lot of areas that could certainly use your consciously intended love. Let’s learn and grow as we help others. Let’s allow more fully as we help others. Let’s have fun with this even as we know the seriousness of the situations we intend to assist. It’s OK to do that. In fact, as you do, that lighter and brighter energy will assist your efforts and will help catapult you more fully into the expansiveness of the Divine. Sounds like fun to me! Are you in?

Mahalo (may you be held in the breath of God) …Linda

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The Big “R” Word

August 12, 2017

We have a lot of words that have dual meanings. Take, for instance, the word “Aloha”. It can mean “hello”, “goodbye”, and even other things. But, there is one word that may cause your internal belief regulator to go crazy. That word is “Responsible”. The big “R” word.


If I said “Wow, that’s really taking responsibility.” or “You took responsibility like a grown up.” we would all agree that the word had a positive meaning. But what if I said “ OMG you’re responsible for that!” can’t you feel your heart sink? Being responsible can mean you’ve done a really good thing by stepping up and owning your actions and the consequences. Or, it could mean you’ve really caused an issue and it is being judged harshly by others and they want you to own your actions and the consequences, where it appears you have not.

So, why is this a problem? In the big sense, it isn’t at all. However, depending on which version of the meaning of the word you give priority and preference, it can cause you a lot of confusion as you come to know that you create your life; you choose in every moment; and those choices are your responsibility. Those choices also impact all life in some capacity.

What if you, due to your prior experiences, give priority to the negative meaning of the word responsible. When you then come to know and then believe that you are responsible for every choice you make and all the consequences of that, it can feel like a terrible burden. Instead of being a joyful step in consciously creating your life, it can instead make you dread making a choice.

How many times have you been criticized for your choices? How many times have you been judged for a choice that you felt was appropriate and right for you but others didn’t think so? How many times have you been told “you are responsible for this!” and felt awful because the understanding was that you did something wrong? Can you imagine how that one word might cause a chain reaction of “fight or flight” responses within you? Can you imagine how, subconsciously, you may hold yourself back from truly embracing your Divine nature and your Divine ability to consciously create for fear of the consequences?

And what if, as you expanded spiritually and came to believe that you are part of all life, you also understood on some level of you that your choices then, impacted everything and all things. Are you willing to risk making a choice that might negatively impact another even if you didn’t do that consciously? That is a huge burden to shoulder. That’s especially so if you just want to choose for you and not have to be concerned with everyone else.

Even though this is all from the mind and not the heart, it can still have serious consequences for you until it all gets sorted out per your beliefs and the associated feelings. Why would you set yourself up to be judged by others and why would you risk choosing consciously if you felt that you might be responsible for the impact on everyone else as well as yourself? Fortunately, all this inner angst isn’t likely to come up until you are progressing nicely on your spiritual path and, by that time, once you recognize what is happening, you can change it easily.

When you free yourself from the burden of responsibility and, instead, embrace the joy of the gift of responsibility for all that you experience, your life will feel so much easier. Yes, the dual meaning of the word responsible will still exist and will still be used. But, you will no longer be tied to one negative version of the word and you can choose which version to accept in any given moment instead of having a negative version chosen by default. You can still overcome the default, but wouldn’t it be so much easier to have your default be the joyful version? Wouldn’t it be so nice to not subconsciously feel the weight and burden of feeling “responsible” for everything (since you create all you experience, both individually and collectively) and, hence (since you are tied to the negative version), feeling awful about anything that is perceived as negative in your own life and in the world? Imagine all that playing out internally and subconsciously. Imagine the conflict. Imagine how you might limit yourself to limit your “liability”. Whew!

Would you like the highest truth on this for you, changing your truth to that truth? Would you like to be freed in all times, versions, aspects, layers and levels of you from the tie to any perceived negative version of the word and concept of “responsible” (in all its forms) and have your default on that be the positive version, knowing that you can choose to experience the negative version at any time? Would you like to know what it feels like to be free of the weight and burden of “negative” responsibility and to truly be free? Would you like to understand the gift of responsibility and how to use it in the highest and best way?

If so, say “yes – responsible” and allow the Divine Energy of Creation to teach you and show you and fill your heart with the joy of it and the gift of it and the richness of it. Allow yourself to accept a more expanded version of life and what it means to consciously create your life in each moment. For so it is if you allow it to be.

And to go one step further, would you like the same for all the perceived negative understandings of all words? If so say “yes – let’s do it” and allow all the burdens and weights and limitations attached to all that to detach and clear and dissolve and allow the truth and understanding of the joy that will now be allowed to surface more fully to come to you in full measure. Allow the gift of life and the gift of being the Divine focused in the here and now and the gift of creating and co-creating moment-to-moment in the now flow to and through you in such great abundance that it also flows from you to others. For so it is if you allow it to be.

If you keep your focus on love and joy and living in that space and creating from that space, there will be no issue with words or understandings or feelings. However, for some, there is a learning curve with spiritual understanding, and living in the now of love and joy consistently and constantly is an uncertainty. Releasing conflicting beliefs helps you to feel comfortable and confident and competent creating in love and joy consciously and deliberately. It will help you get your sea legs so you can ride the waves of beautiful energy while loving every moment of it and allowing others to do the same. Holding yourself in love helps all others to either go more deeply into love or to step more fully and consciously into it. Now THAT is what I call being responsible and I love you for it and am in gratitude for it.

Mahalo (may you be held in the breath of God) my friends.

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