Relationship Belief Transfer

February 10, 2017

We are approaching a day when many celebrate love and romantic relationships. Interestingly enough, relationship issues are surfacing with many people right now.

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One thing to be aware of is that the beliefs you take on related to one or one type of relationship frequently transfer to other relationships and/or types of relationships. Let me give you an example.

Let’s say one of your immediate birth family members does something that you feel is dishonest or where you felt betrayed by that person. Your birth family is supposed to be your “fall back” family, right? Your birth family is supposed to be the one you can trust without question. But what happens when something occurs and you feel that trust can no longer be automatic and unquestioned? You might take on the belief that family has to demonstrate that they are trustworthy before you will again trust.

Well, what if that then transferred to your work relationships? What if it transferred to your spiritual community relationships? What if it even transferred to your view and trust of yourself?! In other words, you develop the belief from the transfer that “I have to prove my trustworthiness to myself before I will believe in myself.” Yikes! So what happens? You begin to create and attract multiple situations so you can prove your trustworthiness and so that everyone else can too! Oh my! That just doesn’t sound like fun to me.

And then…. what if that also transferred to your higher self, your soul self, your soul family, and to the Creator of All There Is? Whew! Then you set yourself up for having the Creator/God/Divine Consciousness to have to prove to you that that energy is trustworthy. Can you imagine the scenarios that you would subconsciously create and attract for that to happen? It would also “put you at odds” with your higher self and soul self until the issue was resolved and completed. Again, whew!

So, what can you do? First, look at any areas where you are not 100% happy with any relationship. What is it about that relationship that is causing you concern? What do you believe about it? Is the belief one that serves you well? Is it (them) one you would want to transfer to other types of relationships? How you react to the world will tell you a lot about that is going on behind the scenes within you. Life is designed to offer you infinite opportunities to experience and BE and create joy. If that’s not your experience, you can change it. Look at your beliefs. Look at your feelings. Choose thoughts and feelings that open the pathway directly to joy.

Would you like the Divine Energy of Creation’s truth on all this, changing your truth to that truth? Would you like to know how to use relationships to spread and foster joy and harmony and love and what it feels like to do that? Would you like to easily identify non-serving beliefs related to relationships and to be able to quickly and easily change them per your conscious intention and connection to the Divine? Would you like to be able to look at all this without the feeling of overwhelm and instead choose the energy of anticipation of how life can be through conscious creation and what that means and looks like? If so, say “yes – relationships” and allow the core essence of you combined with the energy of all life to merge this understanding into your conscious awareness, allowing you to access your innate knowledge of Divine truth and your beautiful Divine gifts of Spirit. Allow yourself to accept this energy and to allow it to flow through and within and from you in joyful anticipation and truth. For so it is if you allow it to be…

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda

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Belonging

December 22, 2016

During holiday times when we get together with family and friends to celebrate and enjoy, there can be an underlying current of discontent related to belonging.

We have come to understand that we “belong” to our family. We base all our interpretations of belonging on how we feel/felt about the bonds and structure and interplay within that familial family. For some, those feelings were not about inclusion and security and encouragement and love, as we would have it expressed. So, every time we get together with our familial family, those undercurrents (typically repressed from childhood) are “activated” and brought forward into conscious awareness. That’s where family discord can be enhanced and where it can be challenging to stay in a space of peace and non-judgment.

We, as humans, crave to belong. Many will use any behaviors to secure their place and belong – even to their detriment. However, a more expanded truth is that it is not possible to not belong. Since we are a part of and WE ARE the Divine, we can never really be separate and we always belong and we are always loved unconditionally. But, it doesn’t always feel that way in 3D here and now does it?

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Sometimes we don’t feel safe belonging. We feel there will be, at the very least, an implied obligation/responsibility for that sense of belonging and we feel we have no control over what will be expected. But, that desire to belong is strong and sometimes overrides good common sense. We may also feel like we are forever tied to our familial families and there is no escape. We are obligated. We are captive. There is no escape without intense pressure and judgement and hard feelings. Whew. And, there are so many opportunities to “belong” (per our 3D view). The family of man, the family of church/religion/like believers/, the family of origin, the family of friends we choose… the list goes on and on. With each comes the underlying beliefs related to obligation i.e. your dues to belong. That’s a lot of pressure!

Would you like Creator’s most expanded truth on belonging; that you ALWAYS belong; that belonging is ultimately related to you accepting the highest expression of you and that that type of belonging far surpasses any sense of being a part of life here and now that you could imagine; that you feel and know that as your truth now and here; that it is safe to belong; that you have proper discernment on where to belong, how to belong, how invested to be in belonging, when to belong, and that you have a clear understanding of what you are willing to give to belong, from your heart and not your head; that you are worthy and deserving of belonging in the best and most supportive and embracing way; that you understand how to “belong” as part of and AS the Divine Energy of Creation while also “belonging” in the here and now in the most expanded and best and most supported way for you, simultaneously; that it is possible for you now; with clear conscious awareness and understanding of all this now; how to live your daily life knowing and believing and acting from and BEing it all; with love and grace and peacefulness and balance and harmony and compassion and immersed in Divine truth; for all times, versions, aspects and all layers and levels of the expressions of you? And would you like to know how to belong and feel like you belong even when the 3D doesn’t appear to show that you do (i.e. how to enjoy all get-togethers feeling like you belong and knowing that you belong, even if it is not as the “group” would understand belonging)?

If so, say “yes- belonging” and allow the Divine energy to embrace you, enfold you, infuse you with these truths and understandings and beautiful sparkling love and joy.

You belong. You are worthy and deserving of belonging no matter how you feel about things you have done or not done. You are always and forever a part of and YOU ARE the Divine. It just is. Know that about yourself and believe it. Allow it in as your truth. For so it is…we are all One.

Merry Christmas and Happiest of Holidays! Enjoy knowing you belong!

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda

Theta Healing Connect
Connecting You to Everyday Moment-to-Moment Miracles
Teaching You Soul to Soul Connection

Opening Your Connection to Divine Truth
Connecting You to Your Co-Creative Nature
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