“Group Healings”

September 18, 2018

For those of you reading who are not on Facebook, there has been some dialogue about how to help with the energy of Florence, before and during and after. I believe you might be able to use the links below to read those posts even if you aren’t on Facebook.

This will be my final words related to this topic for now. The reason for this post is that there still feels like confusion about whether or not your efforts worked given the aftermath and the results that are continuing (please note that I am not labeling it devastation or the like).

First let me say that I am calling this discussion “group healing” though I no longer refer to shifts as “healing”. But that’s a topic for another time. For right now, though, for ease of discussion I am using that term.


When we do a group healing, unless one person takes the lead, each person is doing what they feel and intuit is best. The issue is that those feelings may be at odds with the efforts of others. Each person opens to his or her own understandings in his/her own time and he/she operates from those current understandings (in conjunction with the associated beliefs and feelings) at any given time. Along the continuum of truth, all of those understandings may be true. However, given the amount of space between those focal points on the continuum, perceptions about how to proceed may be different and not work harmoniously together. This can cause issues with “independent” group healings.

Let me say a few words about that too. I believe one person offering “healing” can be as powerful as a group focused on the same path to an outcome. I know some of you will bristle at that and I’m fine with that. Just allow another perspective to be understood.

I believe that, at some level, we know and believe in and can act from the space and truth that we are all One energy at the same understanding which is all truth. At that level, though we are individuated sparks of that whole, we ARE the entirety of that whole and can act from that space per choice. It is the all of all life as One energy. From that perspective, one person acting from that space is as powerful as any group – because it IS the group but without all the divisions, perspectives, separate levels of focus, etc. It is the space of pure cohesiveness, pure consciousness.

When in the here and now and we think of the power of the group and we are told of the power of the group from sages, it puts us in a space where we can release (for the moment) any fears or reservations or doubts about our own individual efforts, feeling that what the one may lack, another will “fill in”. That is the power of the group. It spreads our perception of a “good or bad” result over the group so we can release fears of judgment or seeing our own self-truth which may not be what we wish or believe it to be. A healing by one person may feel like a test. If it doesn’t work, it’s on the healer. That really isn’t true, in my opinion, but we can feel that way. And we can say “the person didn’t allow the healing” but, on some level, that may feel like a convenient out for lack of skill and/or connection. With a group healing, we can feel free to relax and do the best we know how to do in the moment with our best intention and without reservation. And, that immediately will make for a better outcome.

Yet, if we will work on those fears and clear them, we allow ourselves to more deeply connect to the Divine Energy of Creation (God, the One, the Universe, Allah, etc.) and act from the knowing that we ARE that energy and we – ALL life together as One – are as powerful as it gets. From that space, there is only love and can be only love and only love can result. The effort of the “one person” would be same as any other without consultation because it is the only option, the only choice. And, it is the choice you would choose out of infinite choices.

So, how does all that feel to you? Uncomfortable? Feeling like you are going against “the word of God”?

On that note, where does the “word of God” come from? Who tells you what that is? Humans discern based on their experiences, beliefs, feelings, culture, environment, situation, connection to Source, where each is on the continuum of truth in any given moment, etc. So… they are better than you for connecting to and knowing the most expanded truth? Perhaps. Perhaps not. Perhaps there is another perspective where you are empowered to step into who and what you really are and bring that into the here and now and use it to create (co-create – because it is actually the same thing at that level) what you desire here and now.

Let what you feel come into your conscious awareness. Allow it. If is feels overwhelming, intend to allow what you are willing to consider. Then, examine the beliefs and feelings and ties and obligations to all that. What are you willing to change? What are you willing to believe? What are you afraid of? Are you afraid that you might get it wrong to even consider such a thing? Are you worried of the judgment of the hereafter? What if there was no judgment of the hereafter?

Do you believe we are always expanding? Do you believe understandings are continually expanding based on new levels of understanding and perspective being offered? How do you believe someone from biblical times would feel about how we live our daily lives and all the tools we have to do what we do? Would they be able to reconcile for instance, a bed knowing what your heart-rate is or a watch knowing where you are located? Just allow what you feel to surface. Many of you may never have given any of this any thought. A person(s) who appears to be more intuitive or more knowledgeable than you says one thing so it must be so. And, as you believe it, it becomes real for you. What if you didn’t stop there? What if you then continued to be open to truth and love and expansion? And, what if you decided to trust your own inner truth?

The tie in to Florence and the results are, in part, due to the individuated efforts to assist. Can you see how that would make a difference? If each person was connecting to the Divine Energy of Creation as part of and simultaneously AS that energy, the result would be consistent. However, if each is connecting in to the level of their personal understanding and truth, can you see how that might be different? Can you see how sending love and high vibrational energies to a situation vs. using the mind to determine how to direct the desired outcome might be different? And can you see how those different techniques might result in an outcome that is in conflict within itself? If so, yea. If so, you are willing to allow for expansion. You are willing to connect into your own inner wisdom and allow it to guide you to your most expanded truth for you now (which may or may not be the most expanded truth of the Divine at this time). That’s a powerful step. That’s a joyful step. That’s a step (or more) towards fully expanding into the wholeness and Oneness of you and the Divine Energy of Creation (the energy of all life combined). That’s who you are.

I hope this helps you to understand why the outcome of your efforts to help others can sometimes seem so very different from what you intended and, even at odds with it. A shift from the mind focus to a heart focus can help. The more who are offering from the heart (and many feel that the mind focus is from the heart), the better. When you are offering from the level of Oneness and you AS the creator (and remember, that is not saying you are doing it by yourself – because at that level there really isn’t the self as we know it here and now), you choose love. Love is infinite wisdom. Love is everything that is needed. Love is perfectly positioned and powerful enough to shift perceived reality into a new creation that is best for all life because it is all life. If that doesn’t make sense to you, take a moment. Breathe. Allow the Divine Energy of Creation to offer you the most expanded truth for you at this time on this topic – with all the understandings, perspectives, feelings, and intuitive resonance that you need to make your related choices.

It begins with you. It continues with me. And the next and the next until we are all creating from pure unadulterated love for all. Can you dig it? hehehe

Mahalo… Linda

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What Just Pinged Me?!

August 31, 2018

Pay attention. Be aware.

We all are continually learning and experiencing and discovering new things about ourselves. It’s part of what makes life fun. One way to access really hidden and unknown things about yourself is to be aware about how you feel as you experience life. If you notice that something catches your attention, or you feel something that you wouldn’t expect to feel, pay attention. Ask questions. Get to the bottom of the “why”.

I’ll give you a recent example. A while back, the Theta Healing Institute of Knowledge decided to make changes to protect their brand and to keep the Theta Healing message consistent. We were given descriptive language to use, guidelines for teaching, and we were asked to not have the words “Theta Healing” in our business name.

After over seven years of building my “brand” – ThetaHealingConnect – and having it be identifiable and recognizable, I asked if I could be granted an exception. They had already considered those like me who were already established and generously grandfathered us in. And now we teach new students about the importance of a consistent message worldwide.


Recently, after a blog post, I received a public message on Facebook asking if I had permission to use ThetaHealing in my business name. I did not know the person asking. I checked to see if she worked for the Institute and she did not. But, I felt like it was a legitimate question even though it could have been phrased differently. And, that was the thing… because of the wording, it made me feel like my integrity was being questioned and it felt very uncomfortable. So, a simple question (seemingly) but an unexpected feeling – like someone felt they had caught me doing something wrong and they were going to make it right. Oh my.

What did I do? (And here is a great example of how using Theta on yourself can work…) I paused and then I asked. What was this about really? I understood that it was about being disturbed that someone (even someone who doesn’t know me) would question my integrity. But, again paying attention, it felt like more. So, I asked Creator to take me to the first time I ever noticed having my integrity questioned. Wow, was I taken by surprise!

I was taken to a time when I was a very little girl (probably under six). My mother was out with my brother, me, and my little sister. A woman stopped by and was gushing about how beautiful my little sister was. She had long blonde wavy ringlets, blue eyes, and a heart shaped face. She was adorable, no doubt. But, the lady never mentioned the other two children standing right there. I learned – even at that tender age – that people made judgments based solely on looks. I’m considering this and it didn’t make sense related to having my integrity seemingly challenged. That’s the awareness. So, I asked to go deeper. What was this about? And I was shown how it bothers me whenever anyone is judged by how they look and not by their character (in the news a lot these days, right?). I was shown a “What Would You Do?” type blip where a more average looking waitress was suspected of stealing tip money without a second look at the very pretty other waitress. I was quickly shown a few other examples. Still I was a bit puzzled.

It was made clear that we have a “primitive brain” or instinctual brain that we have used since at least cave man times. We had split seconds to determine the threat level of a person or situation so we could act appropriately in time to not be killed or eaten. We still have that DNA. We still have that area of the brain. And, we still use it though not in the same way exactly. It benefits us to make an instant evaluation of a person and the threat level that person may present. We know we can always adjust that evaluation if we are incorrect. And, the other person never need know, right? (Even though they do the same thing whether consciously or not.) It’s that “judgment” about someone based on instant impressions – even if that included intuition and energy assessment – that was coming to blows with my current spiritual beliefs.

It was a true gift to have all that brought to my conscious attention. I was able to resolve some unresolved feelings related to my sister. I was able to address the conflict in beliefs. I was able to understand with more clarity the “need” to evaluate/judge/assess someone on the basis of things other than who they really are and their character; and also how everyone can learn to do that “evaluation” intuitively, which will include character and the wholeness of the person and where they are in their connection to Source in the moment. It was rich with learning and wisdom and clarity and I am very grateful. And, look at the level of grace and ease used to bring it to my attention! I am in awe really. Pretty perfect other than it just dropping from the sky into my conscious awareness. I honestly don’t know how you would make that happen with all that was included.

So, the bottom line is pay attention and be aware of how you feel about all things. It’s important. And, it can show you so much about yourself that you have either hidden or just don’t know about. That’s a great thing to know when you are creating your life as you go. If you don’t know what you really think and feel, guess what?! You won’t allow your creation in and/or you will delay it until things resolve. While things are showing up so very fast now, I’d rather know ahead of time so I’m not wondering “where’s the beef” when I expect something to show up. Wouldn’t you?

And, it was also a good thing to look at my initial response to the situation. Intellectually, I knew the question was legitimate. The lady was being loyal and protective of a great meditative energy technique. She went to me first. All in all, no issue. Yet, it distressed me. The feeling I had instantly was almost like the reverse of what bothered me. Luckily, I paid attention in Theta class (hehehe), and did what I call “The ThetaHealing Mantra” – ask Creator. And, I did what I taught myself – pause. Take a moment to release from the energy and then ask what all of it is about. Don’t worry if you don’t feel experienced in receiving answers – yet. Expect that they will come. Look for clues all around you. Creator hears you and will respond in the best way for you in the moment of now – however you may know and believe it now. Perhaps a friend will say something out of the ordinary; perhaps the news will highlight a similar thing; perhaps something in a book catches your eye… it can be any number of ways. Don’t second guess it. Just expect and pay attention and be aware. Good things to do all the way around.

And, last but not least, love and gratitude to the lady who innocently brought me all this wealth of self-understanding. I am blessed.

Happy Holiday for many and Happy Every Day for all…

Mahalo… Linda

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