Obligation and Duty

November 20, 2018

During holidays, many people fall into the energies of obligation and duty. Because they make choices that they wouldn’t make unless they felt an obligation or duty, it generates the energy of resentment and, sometimes…anger. But, they go through with it anyway – like a martyr. All this swirls up the energy of stress and disappointment related to the self because the person feels there is no out and they can’t figure out how to change the situation. Oh my! That’s a lot of less than joyful energy!

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So, what’s at the core of obligation and duty? Why would you choose to do what you don’t want to do? If you dig deep, you’ll find fear. Fear of not being loved. Fear of not being accepted. Fear of being judged harshly. And you say “Well, I want to be loved and accepted and I want to fit in.” Of course you do. But at what cost?

The layering of energies that don’t serve you and the then “burying” of them later is not what helps you to live a happy and joyous life. It’s not what attracts and generates wonderful things to and for you.

So, if you decide to act out of obligation and duty, accept that you are choosing this option and be happy about it. Make the best of it. Or, just say no and accept the consequences. Do you really think people who truly love you will suddenly not love you if you choose to do something unexpected or against what they desire you to do? Do you believe you will be outcast automatically if you honor your own desires? Now, just to be clear, I’m not suggesting that supporting family and family needs is a problematic thing. I’m just suggesting that if you choose it, own it and go forward with in immersed in positive energy.

Where do you allow others to define what you have to do or should do? Why do you allow it? There are many valid reasons to choose to allow pre-set expectations. In fact, they may actually be ones you would develop independently. But, be clear. Know yourself. Know if you are choosing only because someone else wants or expects you to choose in that way. You choose to follow the law because it keeps you out of jail. You choose to go to certain parties because it helps you relate to people at work and get to know them better. You choose to go to a family dinner with all the distant relatives because you get a free meal (or whatever!). You might even find that Uncle Ralph has had some interesting adventures or that Aunt Marge served in the military a long time ago in covert intelligence. Whatever your narrative, make sure (make really sure!) it is positive and it frames the understanding that you are making a positive choice for yourself.

Energy is not all that mysterious. Be guided by how you feel. If what you are about to do makes you feel good and doesn’t hurt others, yea and go for it. But, if you makes you feel a bit queasy or you begin to tense up, re-think your choice. It’s all about energy. Your future and what you are creating for yourself right this minute is all about energy. The more closely yours is aligned with joy and love and peace, the more wonderful things you are creating and attracting into your experience – consciously or subconsciously. Take the first step into conscious creation and become aware of how you feel and why. Shift whatever doesn’t make you happy or at the very least make your choice one you buy into and own and are resolved to make the best of.

Enjoy the holidays. Feel the blessings of having so much good abundance in your life. Know that you choose for you. Choose wisely and your life will blossom like a beautiful flower on a spring morning. Aaaahhh. It feels good, right?

Mahalo (may you be held in the breath of God)… Linda

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Operation? Medication? Procedure? What’s Underneath?

October 26, 2018

I know many of us continue to talk about things changing so rapidly. But, it’s been happening for a good while and it continues. Look at all the things that have changed in the last fifty years. Sometimes the process seems slow, but we really are taking giant leaps.

As part of the changing energy, parts of your own energy that are in conflict tend to be amplified. That, then, brings that conflict into your awareness often in the form of physical, emotional, financial, or relationship issues. It’s to help you become aware of what would change that conflict into harmony and balance and flow.

Let’s take the physical as an example. You feel bad. You go to a doctor. The doctor does tests. The tests indicate a serious medical issue. Oh my. It’s so easy at that point to welcome in the fear. We become desperate to fix the problem. Yet, in the energy of fear, the solution will be held at bay. That’s because your immediate present energy does not match the energy of the solution. We pray. We see energy healers. We take medications. We do all kinds of things. But, underlying all we do is the energy of fear. When change doesn’t happen, we begin to doubt. We doubt all kinds of things. We feel lost and adrift – apart from our spiritual desires.

What would happen if – instead – you decided that no matter what, you were going to look at this challenge as a gift – a spiritual gift of insight into something you didn’t recognize about yourself? You were going to step out of the cultural default to feel like you have to fight disease and fight a diagnosis – even a terminal one. Instead, with everything you do and every thought you think and every breath you take, you were in a state of gratitude and you embraced the love from which everything is generated and you saw yourself as part (a very important part!) of a larger whole. You lived that. You breathed that. You believed that in every way. You allowed that to infuse your energy.

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I can tell you what would happen. Things would shift automatically without you having to micro manage them. Re-creation. Rejuvenation. Restoration. You would go back for further evaluation and tests and it would be proclaimed a miracle! The doctors would be amazed. And, your attitude of gratitude would explode in the best way. You would also become even more dedicated to connecting fully with your soul and with the Divine Energy of Creation to consciously create the life you want now. That’s what I see happening.

There are a lot of beliefs on many levels that are contrary to this view. Yet, when you allow gratitude and love and your belief that you are Divine no matter what the outcome to consume you, all those beliefs will fall like cards in the wind. But, you have to choose to embrace. You have to choose to allow. You have to choose to know that anything and everything is possible for you here and now – even changing a terminal diagnosis.

Just a note here for clarity… I am not a doctor. I am not a health care practitioner of any type. I am not suggesting that you forgo conventional or alternative treatment of any type. That is between you and them. I am merely offering you another perspective for positive change. It is not either or. It is embracing everything in wholeness and then choosing from the buffet what you feel is appropriate and what would get you the best result for you now.

We’ve already discussed that you don’t want the underlying motive to be fear when you choose to have an operation. Instead, if you choose to have one, see it as a wonderful helpful intervention for positive change. Check your beliefs. On some level of you, you know love is all that is needed to shift anything. So when you agree to allow a surgeon to cut you open, there is a subconscious belief that you are causing harm to you. Align those beliefs before surgery.

It’s the same with medications. We tend to view them as something you take when things go wrong. On some level of you, you understand that only love is needed to obtain the result you desire. So, that then conflicts with the taking of medication – unless you change that thinking and the associated beliefs. See the medications as helpers and not being there to cause harm. Yet, that too, has some beliefs that can hinder progress. Some drugs are designed to go inside the body and “kill” other cells. This can create inner conflict of beliefs when you believe all your cells have a right to life and/or that you are actually harming yourself when you kill your own cells. I’m not saying to forgo prescribed medications or even herbal ones. Just make sure that your beliefs are in line with what you are choosing to do so there isn’t inner conflict. I have had great success with seeing the medications as shifting the cells causing the concern into cells that are helpful and positive for the body. Remember, though, to ask first both the Creator and the cells. In your mind’s eye as you meditate, have these discussions. Do you believe that is possible?

We are incredible. We are amazing. Our bodies are fantastic. Perhaps your soul plan is to experience a body that doesn’t seem fantastic. Perhaps your soul plan is to experience a body in decline. Or perhaps your soul plan is to learn that you can step out of preconceived patterns of how things have to play out. Perhaps it is to learn that you are worthy and deserving of and have the skill set to create your life anew as you go. Whatever it is, do you believe you can change your soul plan? Do you believe you can create your future? If so, do you then believe you can change issues with the physical, the emotional, financial, and relationships or anything else?

Your beliefs are important. Get in touch with what you truly believe – not what someone else has told you has to be – no matter how much you admire them. What do you believe? What do you want? Are you willing to embrace love as the final remedy you will ever need? Explore what you believe around this and then act on it. I just saw a friend do it and shift a potentially devastating diagnosis. All she did was accept the energies of love, support, and embrace. That gave her the jump-start she needed to re-connect to her own spirit and desires outside of fear. Easy. Truly.

No one knows you better than you. Only you can decide if this approach is a good fit for you now. If not now, perhaps later. No matter what you decide, do whatever you can to release the associated fear(s). Accept what you truly know about you and how you feel and what you believe (rather than hiding it or pushing it away) and if you don’t like it, change it. You are the creator of you! What do you believe?

Sending you LOTS of sparkly love and the energies of support and embrace to help you on your journey… You are so loved.

Mahalo (may you be held in the breath of God)… Linda

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