Where Are Your Relationships Today, Right This Minute?

April 4, 2018

We are still seeing an energetic set-up that is “assisting” relationship re-definition. As has been mentioned before, this shifting has been seen in male/female, male/male, female/female, and with the male and female energies within the self. This is also emerging as the re-definition of relationships with all things.


As we expand our remembrance of who and what we are and all that accompanies that, we are also shifting – many times automatically – our understanding of our relationships to everything. As that happens, relationship “definitions” (how we have always viewed them) are also re-calibrating to fit our understandings. All this is wonderful. Though it may not always feel like it in the transition stage.

We are being energetically encouraged to become (if not already) self-empowered, self-motivated, knowing our worth and value as known by the energy of the Divine, and acting in alignment with that. That means relationships where there is dependence, the energies of “should” and “must”, an unequal balance, and the like are splintering and dissolving in various ways. This is an adjustment to support self-empowerment and personal choice. This doesn’t mean selfishness. In fact, it means just the opposite. It means honoring the core of you, the most expanded and expansive offering of you (a focused point of the Divine in action), in a way that will ultimately serve self and all life.

As you know the true you and you love and accept the true you, you allow for the flow of your soul energy in your every choice, your every thought, your every action. From the space of your soul energy, there is only love and from it can come only love. As you bring that vibration into the here and now, you are not only BEing love in action, you are choosing love moment-to-moment. From that, good abundance flows. From that, joy expands in every way. From that, your creative nature shines forth. And, you will find that you are excited and happy to use all of that for the betterment and joyful expansion of all (literally, all).

So, if you have “important” relationships that are faltering or dissolving or are becoming contentious, step back for a moment. I could tell you to look at where it served you to stay small or play the victim. But, that might not be the core of the issue. Perhaps your time together served you both well, got you to where you are today, taught you a lot, helped you become wise, supported you in any variety of ways, and it is time to move on to the next chapter of learning. Yes, it can feel rough in the transition. But, it can also feel like a relief as the energies no longer match or the feeling is that the choices and benefits have served their purpose and are complete. Be thankful for all you received – even if the situation made you feel unworthy or “less than” or a victim of circumstances. As you reflect, from a distance, you will see that you always had choice. Sometimes the perceived choices seem scary so you stay. Sometimes the perceived choices seem insurmountable so you stay. But, there is always choice and you are always are in control of how you feel about each part.

If this resonates with you and you are feeling sad or angry or disillusioned or hopeless, pause. Breathe. Remember that you are a powerful amazing spark of Divine action. As such, you are part of the wholeness of the Divine Energy of Creation and you have access to the entirety of that. That’s powerful, right? And yes, it is there for you too – not just someone else. But, to step into the vibration of that, you will want to know yourself as worthy, beautiful, powerful, creative, amazing, awesome, peaceful, and full of radiant joy. I know… when you’re in the point of attraction (i.e. right there in the middle of it all), it may seem like too far a stretch.

How do you get from A – the epicenter of the drama – to B – consciously existing as Source energy? Try. Give it a go. Start with what brings you joy. Do it. Experience it. Feel it. Allow it to fill you and radiate from you. Remember what that feels like as you then go back to doing other things. Whenever you feel your energy drop, remember. Give yourself a code word to immediately shift into those feelings of joy or choose a song that will remind you and begin to hum it. It will shift the immediate energy drain and downward spiral and help it spiral upward and outward to joy. It’s an easy and very effective choice to make. And, it tells the brain you control you and you control your feelings. That’s powerful.

So, are you ready to choose to empower yourself in multiple ways? Are you ready to look at all the things that have happened as learning experiences, without judgment and negative feelings? Are you ready to soar into happiness and joy every moment of every day? If so, just choose to do it and get started and build on what you begin. It will work.

You are loved beyond your comprehension. You are seen as you truly are, without the stories and personas. You are valued beyond measure. You are unique and a joyful expression of the Divine. I love you.

Mahalo… (may you be held in the breath of God) … Linda

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Relationship Belief Transfer

February 10, 2017

We are approaching a day when many celebrate love and romantic relationships. Interestingly enough, relationship issues are surfacing with many people right now.


One thing to be aware of is that the beliefs you take on related to one or one type of relationship frequently transfer to other relationships and/or types of relationships. Let me give you an example.

Let’s say one of your immediate birth family members does something that you feel is dishonest or where you felt betrayed by that person. Your birth family is supposed to be your “fall back” family, right? Your birth family is supposed to be the one you can trust without question. But what happens when something occurs and you feel that trust can no longer be automatic and unquestioned? You might take on the belief that family has to demonstrate that they are trustworthy before you will again trust.

Well, what if that then transferred to your work relationships? What if it transferred to your spiritual community relationships? What if it even transferred to your view and trust of yourself?! In other words, you develop the belief from the transfer that “I have to prove my trustworthiness to myself before I will believe in myself.” Yikes! So what happens? You begin to create and attract multiple situations so you can prove your trustworthiness and so that everyone else can too! Oh my! That just doesn’t sound like fun to me.

And then…. what if that also transferred to your higher self, your soul self, your soul family, and to the Creator of All There Is? Whew! Then you set yourself up for having the Creator/God/Divine Consciousness to have to prove to you that that energy is trustworthy. Can you imagine the scenarios that you would subconsciously create and attract for that to happen? It would also “put you at odds” with your higher self and soul self until the issue was resolved and completed. Again, whew!

So, what can you do? First, look at any areas where you are not 100% happy with any relationship. What is it about that relationship that is causing you concern? What do you believe about it? Is the belief one that serves you well? Is it (them) one you would want to transfer to other types of relationships? How you react to the world will tell you a lot about that is going on behind the scenes within you. Life is designed to offer you infinite opportunities to experience and BE and create joy. If that’s not your experience, you can change it. Look at your beliefs. Look at your feelings. Choose thoughts and feelings that open the pathway directly to joy.

Would you like the Divine Energy of Creation’s truth on all this, changing your truth to that truth? Would you like to know how to use relationships to spread and foster joy and harmony and love and what it feels like to do that? Would you like to easily identify non-serving beliefs related to relationships and to be able to quickly and easily change them per your conscious intention and connection to the Divine? Would you like to be able to look at all this without the feeling of overwhelm and instead choose the energy of anticipation of how life can be through conscious creation and what that means and looks like? If so, say “yes – relationships” and allow the core essence of you combined with the energy of all life to merge this understanding into your conscious awareness, allowing you to access your innate knowledge of Divine truth and your beautiful Divine gifts of Spirit. Allow yourself to accept this energy and to allow it to flow through and within and from you in joyful anticipation and truth. For so it is if you allow it to be…

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda

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