Who is Your BFF?

March 23, 2018

Friends are great. They each have different strengths. They each have specialized likes and dislikes. All that makes for great interest and support.

Yet, there are some aspects that are less optimal such as the degree of loyalty and honesty, availability, and non-endearing personality quirks. But, because friendship is so valuable, most of us learn to take each friend with whatever they bring and whatever they are willing to offer.

All that said, what if there was a friend who was absolutely perfect for you in every way? What if this friend would always be there for you under any circumstances, loved everything you love, was good to go for anything you wanted when you wanted, was supremely loyal, and always had your back. Sounds awesome, right? You can have such a friend. And, in case you haven’t guessed, it’s you!

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We don’t typically think of being our own best friend. Yet, it makes perfect sense. Who knows you best? Who loves you most? Who values everything about you?

But wait… do you love yourself? Do you value you and what you have to offer? Do you enjoy your own company?

Perhaps the truth hurts. Perhaps you, because you think you know the real you, don’t feel you deserve to be unconditionally loved. Perhaps you don’t feel you have anything of real value to offer. Perhaps you feel that what you can project for others to see is more real to you than what you believe about yourself.

So, start there. Take a good look at what you believe about you. Would you choose you as a friend? If not, why? What is it you think isn’t good enough? Be really honest. This is about changing your entire life for the better.

If you are not your own best friend first, how can you expect to even know how to be a great friend to someone else? How can you be an authentic friend and really allow others to know the “real” you if you don’t love yourself and love what makes you uniquely you? This is really important.

We aren’t taught to be our own best friend. Yet, some of us learn how to be because of our external experiences. The caveat with this is that you may come to feel that the only one who can be completely trusted is you. So, you make friends but they are compartmentalized. Different people may know different parts of you. Or not. This is one way that you may consider yourself a friend to you.

However, a more healthy and expansive way is to really evaluate how you feel about you and how you feel about your relationships with others. Learn to love yourself unconditionally. From that love, trust yourself. From that love, enjoy yourself. From that love, know that you are worthy and deserving of the best life has to offer. Then, find friends who support that within you.

Instead of walling off most of your heart to protect it, and as a gesture of self-friendship, take the next step and really look at the core of why you feel that is the best way to live and relate (in self-protection mode). Then be a really good friend to yourself and heal the core that would keep you from being anything but open and honest and loving and compassionate. Does this mean sharing every detail of your life with everyone else? No. It means practicing proper discernment with others but being completely honest with yourself.

You are amazing. You have a uniqueness that allows anything you offer to be special. When you know that about you and honor that and love that about you, you become your own best friend. From that understanding and truth, you can then share you with others. And, you can share on your own terms, but from the space and vibration of authenticity and honoring the truth of you.

Love is a great equalizer. Make sure your relationships are on level playing fields. Make sure they are based on a foundation of self-love, self-honor, and self-respect. That has the potential to allow everyone to be a best friend in some capacity. How wonderful would it be to know that and feel that in all relationships? The choice is yours to make. Choose you. Why? Because you rock!

“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” Dr. Seuss

Mahalo

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what can I do in the big scheme of things?

April 7, 2017

Sometimes, you can feel really small and insignificant. But, you aren’t. There is a lot you can do in the big scheme of things to make a huge difference.

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First, though, there is another issue to address. People are learning how to raise their vibration at exponential speed. As this is accomplished, each tends to come to understand more about being One with All… that the Divine Energy of Creation is all life everywhere, combined as One…beyond all the drama and trauma and judgment and the like. Beautiful energy radiating love…

Yet, that means to the logical mind, that each is a part of the energy of all the others around them day to day and those from our history. It also means that each begins to tap into, to varying degrees, mass and collective consciousness and other consciousness as well.

As a “re-newbie” (hehe), this can be confusing. We wonder why all these things are showing up in our daily lives. We wonder why we feel the way we do (not the best!). We know we have it pretty good but it doesn’t FEEL good. Why is that?

Often, it is because the person is subconsciously connecting in to mass and/or collective consciousness. Mass consciousness, as I experience it, is sort of a melting pot of the thoughts and feelings of all of us at any given time. Right now, the balance of those thoughts and feelings is not tipped toward love and peace and joy. So, when one unwittingly connects in, there may be confusion about where the thoughts and feelings are coming from and it can be distressing.

I am talking to a number of people who are in this situation right now. They are experiencing lots of “smaller” annoyances (and for some there are big issues) and they can’t fathom why they are attracting such things. If you are connected into a pool of thought and feelings from others, unless you are consciously addressing it, your brain does not distinguish between those thoughts and feelings and your own. Therefore, you are subconsciously creating from the space of mass consciousness. Yikers.

Now some are, in a quest for full and conscious connection to ALL, opening themselves up to this connection. That can be useful with conscious intent and the remembered skill set to deal with thoughts less than loving and kind. But, for many, these attempts can be like turning down a long dark road at night and having the engine quit and the phone die. You’re there and you know to then connect in to the Divine but the fear begins to creep in and the “impossibilities” begin to cement. Again, yikers.

So, there are easy things to do. First, allow yourself to be taught how to recognize when you are connected to mass consciousness. Then, allow yourself to be taught how to instantly disconnect. You might also choose to set it so you never connect to mass consciousness without conscious intent. And, allow yourself to be taught how to trust the Divine Energy of Creation for everything, including when and whether and/or how much to be connected to other energies in that way. We are all always connected to each other at some level. However, we do not need to be negatively impacted by other energies. We can even choose to allow those energies without being negatively impacted by them. But, for many, the first step in full conscious connection to ALL will be to know the “safety” of the “separation” of your own thoughts and feelings from those of others. Eventually, the Divine will show you a more expanded perspective but it will be when you’re ready. If you like, you can always allow a teaching of that expansion now, with a downloading of the remembrance of existing AS it and the how to’s and feelings of that.

Would you like the Divine Energy of Creation’s most expanded truth on all that for you, whatever is best for you now? If so, say and intend to allow “yes – truth” and feel your heart open to send and receive the gift of understanding that is perfect for you now. Allow it. Feel it. Know it. Believe it. “See” it. BE it. And, yea it is!

Now back to what you can do as an individual… After you have dealt with the above in the best way for you, understand that you are a powerful creator/co-creator. You create with the energy of ALL and that means all life everywhere. That’s incredibly powerful and awesome. So, having that as your base, take a moment to settle into your body and being in 3D. From that centeredness, imagine your heart filling with love and peacefulness. Imagine those feelings as expressions of Light. Feel and see and send that Light out from your heart to infinity and back knowing that it will be accepted or not by all life everywhere. Intend for its presentation to be perfect for each life. Intend for the loving expression of your Soul to flow with and AS this Light to each life. Hold that vision for all until you feel it is “complete”. For so it is.

Seeding the hearts of all life with the remembrance of Divine love and peacefulness is a powerful gift you can offer and one that can be the tipping point in mass consciousness to thoughts and feelings of love and peace. How amazing and powerful and healing is that??!! You. You alone, with gazillions of your closest friends (i.e. all life everywhere, hehe) , can do this easily and effortlessly and successfully and effectively and in awesomeness! Believe in yourself. Believe in the Divine Energy of Creation. Believe that you are a part of that and you ARE that. For so it is always and forever.

From my heart to yours, from my soul to yours… Mahalo…Linda

Theta Healing Connect
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Teaching You Soul to Soul Connection

Opening Your Connection to Divine Truth
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