We are still seeing an energetic set-up that is “assisting” relationship re-definition. As has been mentioned before, this shifting has been seen in male/female, male/male, female/female, and with the male and female energies within the self. This is also emerging as the re-definition of relationships with all things.
As we expand our remembrance of who and what we are and all that accompanies that, we are also shifting – many times automatically – our understanding of our relationships to everything. As that happens, relationship “definitions” (how we have always viewed them) are also re-calibrating to fit our understandings. All this is wonderful. Though it may not always feel like it in the transition stage.
We are being energetically encouraged to become (if not already) self-empowered, self-motivated, knowing our worth and value as known by the energy of the Divine, and acting in alignment with that. That means relationships where there is dependence, the energies of “should” and “must”, an unequal balance, and the like are splintering and dissolving in various ways. This is an adjustment to support self-empowerment and personal choice. This doesn’t mean selfishness. In fact, it means just the opposite. It means honoring the core of you, the most expanded and expansive offering of you (a focused point of the Divine in action), in a way that will ultimately serve self and all life.
As you know the true you and you love and accept the true you, you allow for the flow of your soul energy in your every choice, your every thought, your every action. From the space of your soul energy, there is only love and from it can come only love. As you bring that vibration into the here and now, you are not only BEing love in action, you are choosing love moment-to-moment. From that, good abundance flows. From that, joy expands in every way. From that, your creative nature shines forth. And, you will find that you are excited and happy to use all of that for the betterment and joyful expansion of all (literally, all).
So, if you have “important” relationships that are faltering or dissolving or are becoming contentious, step back for a moment. I could tell you to look at where it served you to stay small or play the victim. But, that might not be the core of the issue. Perhaps your time together served you both well, got you to where you are today, taught you a lot, helped you become wise, supported you in any variety of ways, and it is time to move on to the next chapter of learning. Yes, it can feel rough in the transition. But, it can also feel like a relief as the energies no longer match or the feeling is that the choices and benefits have served their purpose and are complete. Be thankful for all you received – even if the situation made you feel unworthy or “less than” or a victim of circumstances. As you reflect, from a distance, you will see that you always had choice. Sometimes the perceived choices seem scary so you stay. Sometimes the perceived choices seem insurmountable so you stay. But, there is always choice and you are always are in control of how you feel about each part.
If this resonates with you and you are feeling sad or angry or disillusioned or hopeless, pause. Breathe. Remember that you are a powerful amazing spark of Divine action. As such, you are part of the wholeness of the Divine Energy of Creation and you have access to the entirety of that. That’s powerful, right? And yes, it is there for you too – not just someone else. But, to step into the vibration of that, you will want to know yourself as worthy, beautiful, powerful, creative, amazing, awesome, peaceful, and full of radiant joy. I know… when you’re in the point of attraction (i.e. right there in the middle of it all), it may seem like too far a stretch.
How do you get from A – the epicenter of the drama – to B – consciously existing as Source energy? Try. Give it a go. Start with what brings you joy. Do it. Experience it. Feel it. Allow it to fill you and radiate from you. Remember what that feels like as you then go back to doing other things. Whenever you feel your energy drop, remember. Give yourself a code word to immediately shift into those feelings of joy or choose a song that will remind you and begin to hum it. It will shift the immediate energy drain and downward spiral and help it spiral upward and outward to joy. It’s an easy and very effective choice to make. And, it tells the brain you control you and you control your feelings. That’s powerful.
So, are you ready to choose to empower yourself in multiple ways? Are you ready to look at all the things that have happened as learning experiences, without judgment and negative feelings? Are you ready to soar into happiness and joy every moment of every day? If so, just choose to do it and get started and build on what you begin. It will work.
You are loved beyond your comprehension. You are seen as you truly are, without the stories and personas. You are valued beyond measure. You are unique and a joyful expression of the Divine. I love you.
Mahalo… (may you be held in the breath of God) … Linda
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